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A man had been married 40+ years. He is 75 + years of age. His wife cooked and cleaned and he provided income. They had sex once in a while. They took  each other for granted. Kids have moved away. He was content, she was sort of happy and then she died and now, OMG! he's on his own.   As mundane as his marriage was,  he sure misses sex. After he settles into his new life, and is going … [Read more...] about The Older Man Looking For Love

Emma Curtis Hopkins’ words may not be easy to hear and digest, but they are on point: “The world in which we live is the exact record of our thoughts. If we do not like the world we live in, then we do not like our thoughts.” I’m sure some are ready to disagree with that. "It never stops," a young woman once said to me after listing situations that were happening in her life and her … [Read more...] about Yes, Something Wonderful Happens Today!

As I’m working with people in a clinical setting I’m finding many people… okay, most people,  have a very dysfunctional relationship with food. In my practice one of the steps I have clients do is keep a food/mood journal for 3-4 days. They need to keep track of everything they eat and drink, keep track of mood and how they feel after eating. I track movement (exercise) and their sleep … [Read more...] about Our Dysfunctional Relationship With Food

Resistance is the emotional equivalent of “I Don’t Want THIS.” How many times a day do we bump against this one? What can we do about it? Resistance feels bad. In fact, at times it feels as bad, or worse, than what you resist. At the very least, it amplifies the negative energy you’re feeling, which is fear-based in one way or another. When you amplify the energy you feel, you amplify … [Read more...] about Resistance Is a Prison without Bars

A Science Daily press release claims research shows that High-Earning Women Want Older, More Attractive Partners. Say what? Did I read that right? High earning women want OLDER more attractive partners? I get the "more attractive" part, but OLDER? The researchers tackling this subject need to get out … [Read more...] about Older Women Want Younger Men – Really

Somewhere in my late fifties, I suddenly noticed that I was still single. You know, it just popped up at me one day and I thought "Gee, I have not dated since....." then I dated this physical education teacher. We won't go into that bad choice. Oh, I have been married before. In fact, I have traveled down the aisle of matrimony twice. The first trip, I was seventeen and so in … [Read more...] about Finding Love Online (And Elsewhere)

As a follow up from my last month's post on stress hormones, I wanted to share some ways to manage stress. I’ll share ways I personally manage stress. Stress effects everything in our body, from not digesting and assimilating nutrients, to having our adrenals being “shot”. Our systems will work in a harmonious way if we can only be in a calm state. Yeah, right…’easier said than done’. If … [Read more...] about How Does Stress Really Affect Us?

How many times do we hear we shouldn’t be stressed out? We should be in the namaste state of chill. Easier said than done. We live in a fast-paced world where everything we do seems to stress us out. Even the morning alarm puts us into a stressful state. What does all this stress do to our bodies? Where should I start? Let’s start with the hormone cortisol. In our primitive ancestor’s … [Read more...] about Three Ways Chronic Elevated Cortisol Disrupts Endocrine System Balance

The premise of Law of Attraction is actually simple. But, to reach this simplicity, you often have to travel through “layers.” Self forgiveness is one of those layers; and it influences use of Law and success results. Do you ever wish you’d done something in the past differently, or think about how results of one or more mistakes caused you to feel pretty bad about yourself, or … [Read more...] about Self Forgiveness: What Does It Have to Do with Success?

I hunt down senior life coaches like Mr. Fudd hunts down his famous "wascally wabbit", and just like the elusive Mr. Bunny, I find they are few and far between. I need to hear from others who are experiencing some of the stuff I encounter when simply trying to help others live a full senior life. What folks don't know is that we are supplying a dual service. We feel better when living … [Read more...] about Any Life Coaches For Seniors Out There?